Got Til It's Gone..

Welcome to the amazing month of April!!
And Ohh yeah...Happy April Fool's Day peeps!!
So who's April gonna fool today?Hmmmm...anyways y'all should have fun fooling somebody today *wink* LOL!

Singing along to Janet Jackson's song"Got till it's gone" ,a smile curves my lips as I ponder over those melodious, yet deep and meaningful lyrics!
Truth be told..there are just some people out there who come into your life,never realise your value or worth until you take a walk or they walk away!
Funny how it takes your absence for them to begin to realise the diamond you are..the sparkle that made their life meaningful at some point*sighs*
It wouldn't make so much sense for you to start thinking and giving yourself an undeserved headache about it.
The saying.."Because someone doesn't know your worth doesn't mean you should lose track of it!" comes to mind.

At the point of their presence in your life,they somehow make you believe that they are doing you a big favour by being with you,spending time with you..recounting some of your flaws at every given opportunity they get, so you can relate with when they say you must be lucky to have them or be with them!*smh*
Once they take that exit from your life,don't waste those golden tears!


Knowing your worth is soooo vital to your happiness..so if you don't feel good about yourself,it's difficult to feel good about anything else!
You need to get up,dust it off your shoulders like some bad lint and remember.."Sometimes you need to forget what you feel..and remember what you deserve!"

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