lifeandlovezone

On an early humid morning,I stroll out of my house going for my usual morning walks,a lady in her late 50's greets me with a smile. In my usual apprehension towards strangers,I respond with a cool,questioning smile! I slowly close my gate,giving her the opportunity to keep walking but i noticed she slowed down her pace. I sense this and am wondering "Hmmm...am in no mood for a chat this morning especially with today's weather that isn't exactly generous with some breeze to enable me kill some kilometres!"*sighs* Anyways,i proceed with her still walking in front of me and after a few minutes,she turns back to walk towards me! "Hello!I know we haven't met but i normally see you take your morning walks on some mornings." Am like "Ooh..ok"..with a smile. She goes on to tell me how she has never really been interested in body fitness or workouts,but when she kept seeing me it occured to her that she could easily take morning walks with...

About 3months ago,my friends and I were sitting in a shop, waiting on the shop attendant. My friend starts telling us about how he did a job for some guy a few months back and the guy hasn't paid him for his service up till now,claiming he didn't have money to pay him yet! What got my friend mad at the guy ,was the fact that the guy had the nerve to travel out and he kept posting pictures on Instagram, shopping in expensive stores,showing off the shopping bags and tagging "Life is good!" Imagine that!!*smh* Before i could even get outta my shock and stop myself from a very loud laugh,my other friend got up shouting "Waaaat!What kinda nonsense is that?How can people be so heartless?How can you owe someone money and you have the heart to do that?How can he be so shameless?bla bla bla!! I must say..i was pissed myself but i calmed him down,telling him to keep reminding the guy with calls, messages ,visits..and hopefully the guy will pay soon! Now fast forwar...

While growing up..i knew it was a good thing to have Role models,apart from my parents who did an excellent job in that regard!*smiles* People I admired...from all walks of life ranging from Professors,Doctors,reputable Businessmen to Celebrities,Artistes,etc. These are people who you should not only admire their success and aspire to attain yours, but people who have qualities worth emulating! As years went by,i extended my list of role models,picking them out of their profound knowledge in businesses,their eagerness to help people succeed by being true leaders and not bosses,their way of life or even how they manage life's challenges! You're probably wondering why this is important..right? Wellll..i felt this was quite necessary because Role models set goals for you and try to make you as good as they are..or even better! Now bringing you back to the present..i look up certain people,especially women who i think are worthy of being Role models and slightly immerse my...

Most women admire you but would rather keep the compliments to themselves!Infact,some see you as their competition,even when you're not aware!*smiles* Till this moment,i can't specifically tell you why some of them behave this way but trust me,it's an amusing observation!LOL! Am guessing some men do this too,albeit for some other reasons..not out of sheer jealousy or insecurity, but for more reasonable reasons!*wink* Anyways,this reminded me of an experience i had not too long ago with a fellow neighbour. Apparently she had a car problem on the highway,a few miles from our neighbourhood. I was driving back home and as i passed a parked car,i looked and saw her standing by the car,looking all worried and flushed! I sensed it was car trouble so i did a reverse and approached her. She recognised me and i sensed her embarassment!Not because her car had a fault but because i drove back to offer her some assistance! She is someone who sees me almost everyday in the neigh...

In as much as we are human and tend to seek advice occasionally when things happen or are going wrong,one has to be wise to know when to filter such advice or suggestion! I recently read a social media post from a lady who adviced married ladies that have cheating husbands,to stop fretting about infidelity/walking out of their marriages...but instead they should supply their husbands with enough condoms to protect them from sexual calamities! Yessss! Did i hear you say Waaaat??..or you are still opening your eyes/mouth in shock? Yeah i know...i was pretty shocked too so i can imagine!*smh* At that point my thoughts were caught between whether i was from another planet or the world's changing right before my eyes and i just refuse to see it??Hmmmm*smh again* ..then i went ahead in the course of disgust to read the post further,which talked about a wife not leaving her marriage no matter what , for other single ladies who might want to take over,unless there is physical abuse f...