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It's not the usual walk into the new year with a loooong list of resolutions so am just gonna make it simple&reasonable this time*big smile* I dunno bout u but I have aw l ays believed in that saying .. "Whoever fails to plan..plans to fail" ..Sooo..Am definitely gonna plan with all the faith&hope my soul can possibly muster! When I say plan..Am not referring to unrealistic goals which have being somewhat of the case in the past years*sighs* It's more like..grabbing the new possibilities that would come my way and turning them around somehow for my good! I had been told years back that sometimes you'd be amazed how God answers your requests!! From the simplest signs He gives you...to the most unexpected person He speaks through! It just wouldn't take Him coming down and tossing the response to your requests in your palms!!*sighs* It also might not come at a time when you expect..but it eventually comes..Yesss...in His time! So don't

I wake up on this bright, cold Christmas morning and alas!!! It's Christmas day!!! The long awaited day!! Yaaaaaaaay!! Welll.. the holiday yesterday already put me in the mood, despite the feeling I had since last week, not exactly feeling like I was close to Christmas day yet*sighs* So I pick up my phone to see if my family or friends are in the mood to celebrate...and yaaaaay i get tons of messages wishing me a very merry Christmas!!! Woww...cards and hampers by the door... Awwwww!! Walking back to bed, i just drop my phone and start meditating... "you know it's really not about the public holidays...or the outings…or even the gifts!! It's actually about LOVE!! U can't help but feel loved not just today , but this season! Think about the reason for all this celebrations...Christ!! He loved you unconditionally soooo much that He gave up his life to save you!! Who does that??? Who can ever??? Now that gives you more than a million reasons to ce

Yessso Yessso*in TuFace's voice*!!It's one week to Christmas!! Am sure some of you are wondering what all the excitement is about..LOL!! Welll..Sooo many reasons actually.. For starters,it's a beautiful season of love and it also reminds you that the year is coming to an end in a bit! This season is about love...not just feeling loved but showing love to others in return. Truth is...as I have grown older,the spirit of Christmas is not as intense for me as it used to be when I was a lot younger*sighs* Does that surprise you?Welll..back in the days I was soooo excited about Christmas because I knew I would get lots of gifts(not just from Santa*wink*)but from my parents and siblings. Infact,I started writing up my list of expected presents from November and mentioning them at every given opportunity,so at least I gave everyone enough notice and of course,making sure I don't get what I already have...hehehe! There was so much love in the air that you just couldn

Hey people! Hope y'all are having a great weekend! Welllll...if I must speak for myself...I sure am..but I know my idea of a great weekend might not exactly be at par with what you see as a great weekend*wink* Speaking of weekends, for some people...it almost seems like a routine to be out at a wedding/party..or a hang out of some sort..or even church fellowships etc. Welll...whatever the occasion..I always have this old saying cropping up in my head " First impressions last the longest !"..and I think it's true*sighs* If you don't believe it..Think about my questions for a minute... "Why do kids write about their 1st day at school?" "When a couple try to reminisce about their relationship..it normally includes..I remember the 1st day we met..?" "When a colleague also tries to recollect some past event in the office..there is a mention of The 1st day..or the 1st time we went to a client..etc?" Okkk..anyways...all

Heyyyy people!!hp ur havin a great week!!*wink* Dont know bout you but i am gearing my body&soul towards the wonderful yuletide season!! Now that brings me to what i am discussing today! I intend to celebrate this season to its fullest, guzzling down all the rice&chicken i will possibly lay my hands on!LOL!!! Yeaaaah,i know where your mind's going..as i do that..i should keep checking the weight scale,right? Anyways..am not only gonna do that..i will also keep in mind right portions and of cos..balanced meals!! I had the opportunity of having a chat with a nutritionist a while back&i decided to share this..especially for those who seem to be dieting but not getting it right...more like..not doing it right!! You must understand that the best method to losing weight is done steadily...by eating a balanced diet containing all the necessary food nutrients the body needs..including healthy fats!! A lot of dieters follow the path of crashing about 7-10kg in a wee

Hallo peeps!! Hope you had a great wkend! Well I got some rest so I guess that counts*sighs* So as we discussed in my last post... Does it make sense to cheat on your partner?NO!!So why do it? Well..like I mentioned in my 1st post on Cheating...some would claim it wasn't because of sex.. but other interesting reasons! I would just add these 2 to the ones I earlier talked about. Social Media Flirting Yeaaaah...Social media!!All types..Facebook,Twitter,WeChat..etc! It may surprise you but it has been a trend that many couples question whether it makes or mars their relationship! Usually borne out of boredom..or sheer curiousity..not necessarily for sex, a partner could cheat through this means! From discussions,this is actually a trend for a couple of people found cheating on their partners. The bored/adventurous partner gets on social media(fb,twitter,etc) and reaches out to past acquaintances/friends and starts having series of chats /messages..which will eventually

Heyyyy people!Hw y'all doing? Hope good!! It's always interesting to the eyes or ears whenever a discussion on relationships come up..single/married! I was at a hang out with friends and in the course of our catching up,we arrived at this baffling talk bout men cheating on their girlfriends/wives! Well...i will share a bit of it today and i believe we can all learn a thing or 2..not just for the ladies...but the guys too! To begin with .... IS CHEATING REALLY ALL ABOUT SEX?? Well...it would surprise you that apparently it's not! Emotional Dissatisfaction is actually a very strong reason why a partner could cheat! Infact a lot of cheating partners actually say they strayed because of emotional dissatisfaction!! Hmmm...So much for the myth that, for men mostly..cheating is all about sex*shaking my head* Funny enough,some men have actually said that sexual dissatisfaction was not the main factor for their infidelity even though our culture tells us that all me