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Is there really a difference between one's personality and one's attitude?? Welll..to be honest I think there's quite a difference between the two. Thinking about it now...there are hot-tempered peeps who don't surprise you with their temper so when they blow up..at least it's something you already expect and you waive it off knowing that's how they are(their personality)!...But the quick-tempered peeps could be a little different because the outburst just comes from nowhere right in the middle of a discussion..leaving u shocked and speechless like a statue(their attitude)!!LOL!*smh* Funny enough,I think everyone's attitude could differ at anytime... but what makes the difference is what makes you upset..or suddenly angry ,how you express your anger/how often..and of course..to whom!(which is the reason why personality and attitude become confusing). More often than not,this confusion between personality and attitude happens in relationships or friend

Sitting on my bed on a lazy Saturday morning...am reminiscing and thinking to myself.....Hmmmm...Just like a few other aged sayings like "The Evil That Men Do Live After Them"...the saying used as my Post title seems not to have that weighty effect I grew up with! There was also a recent controversy concerning an advice given by a well-known preacher advising singles on marriage partners ,which would have been more agreeable with the singles populace back then because it was a norm for a wife-to-be to know how to cook, to be a complete package and for a husband-to-be to have a steady income stream, was definitely top of the list! But hmmm...with the change in millennium times evolving with a lot of woman empowerment,gender equality,bread-winner wives...etc...that kinda advice requiring a woman to be a good cook before a suitor can see her possessing wifey qualities ..cannot be given so much applause..in these times...If u ask me. Naaaa*smh**sighs* Wellll...anyways..I com

Helloooooo peeps! How's it been?Hope this post meets you in good health!*wink* And soooo...a few days ago,I got chatting with a friend who complained to me about his wife's silence recently,especially on issues or discussions that would have usually aroused her vocality! To my amusement,he felt relieved by her recent change of behaviour...as opposed to when they would have noisy arguments waking up the neighbours every other night!*sighs* Hmmmm...Well..as usual..I got inspired to write a post on this*smiles* It's quite interesting to see that when a couple are having an argument...a partner's silence is often mistaken for stupidity..naivety or lack of knowledge...even a subtle agreement to whatever the outcome of the situation is...and a whole lot more of misinterpretations!*smh* But guess what... More often than not...the partner is silent or slow to respond for other reasons that a lot of people dont realise or for some that do...they just choose to ign

Hello peeps!! And so in Nigeria today,(May 27th)..It is that time of the Year to mark the Children’s Day celebration. I can never get tired of repeating how children are not just unexplainable bundles of joy but a great blessing from God. In so many ways,messages are passed physically and spiritually through them..even in their innocence and that's what makes them magical! For those who can relate,the early stages of sharing moments with them..that's between New-borns and toddlers,could be quite tasking.. ..And as a parent,you sit asking yourself when you are gonna start enjoying the fruits of your labour! LOL! Wellll...trust me..u'd be amazed how time flies with kids growing up and before you realise..they are all grown up getting ready to leave your house and move on! *sighs* So why not enjoy those "tasking moments" smiling to yourself and say ..."This is just a phase". Welll..for those who can relate to the scenario of havin

Welcome to the amazing month of April!! And Ohh yeah...Happy April Fool's Day peeps!! So who's April gonna fool today?Hmmmm...anyways y'all should have fun fooling somebody today *wink* LOL! Singing along to Janet Jackson's song"Got till it's gone" ,a smile curves my lips as I ponder over those melodious, yet deep and meaningful lyrics! Truth be told..there are just some people out there who come into your life,never realise your value or worth until you take a walk or they walk away! Funny how it takes your absence for them to begin to realise the diamond you are..the sparkle that made their life meaningful at some point*sighs* It wouldn't make so much sense for you to start thinking and giving yourself an undeserved headache about it. The saying.."Because someone doesn't know your worth doesn't mean you should lose track of it!" comes to mind. At the point of their presence in your life,they somehow make you beli

It's gonna be a long weekend where this week ended on Thursday and next week begins on Tuesday*big smile* A very BIG thanks to the Easter celebration!! Going into meditation over the Lenten period which involved a lotta prayers and fasting for many,it really came at a good time. For those who fast alongside prayers,especially during the period of Lent,it works as a refreshing path to your spiritual life and even physical. I usually use this period for deep meditation on my life,achievements and yet-to-be attained goals. I know it starts with the New Year..resolutions and all but like I always say..it's one month at a time just like it's one day at a time, so you can't achieve ALL set goals in one day but just might achieve it the next day if you take time to pause,think through again,re-strategise  and pursue the goal(s) once again! I got a lotta peeps saying the fasting even helped them on their path to a healthy lifestyle or weight loss! Funny as

Hey peeps!!Hope you have had a good week so far*smiles* And soooo the weekend is almost here and for some of us who have indulged all week…this post comes as a good reminder! If you have being indulging in fatty foods and unhealthy diets, Detoxing can be a great way to get your health back on track! Whether you like it or not…We all need to detox our body from time to time especially when we forget all about portion control and proper dieting!*sighs* Although its sometimes easy to look for a quick fix to give you a health boost, but this isn't always the best way to get your body in tip top shape. The best way to rid your body of toxins by regular detox and allow your body naturally realign itself and get back on track. I will give a few tips on how to get a natural detox : -Take fruits like oranges, apples, even warm water mixed with some lemon..taken first thing in the morning, will help a whole lot in reducing toxin exposure and even weight loss! -Exerci