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Just Keep Moving..!

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Happy New Month peeps!!How y'all doin? Hope good! It's been a pretty long minute but I guess we know how life gets in the way*wink* Anyways,in the course of my thoughts and few experiences over the last few days, the thought kept popping in my head.."Just keep moving!" It is about 30days to the end of 2016. We thank God for getting us this far. Many were alive,  hale and hearty this time last year,  even last week and are no more today. Sadly many of us have lost friends,  colleagues, neighbours, coworkers or even loved ones in the course of this year. I choose to say I am not just lucky but I am blessed and so are you..if you are reading this! Are you still wondering why I just said that? Ok lemme break it down some more..*smiles* Having realised we are coming to the year's end,some people might want to beat themselves up for not achieving what they resolved to do at the beginning or even middle of this year..but guess what? The fact that you can eve

The Healer and The Analyst

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Helloooo peeps!Hope you're doing ok! I'm sure you are wondering who the healer or analyst is?Hahahaha! Well...it's the title and function of the amazing Zodiac sign called Virgo!People who are born between Aug 23 and Sept 22 fall under this interesting sign! This is certainly not just about the Zodiac sign..Virgo. It's just a post I decided to write about while celebrating the Virgo season and the interesting qualities people under this sign possess...of cos the main reason being that I am Virgo and my birthday was September7th !  LOL! Even though you aren't a Virgo,you just might have a sibling, friend or colleague who is ..or infact your partner might be Virgo..so dont run off cos you might learn a thing or 2*wink* I know I have always had this issue of not feeling sleepy early enough at night and this dates back to my school days. I would always wanna run around doing stuff during the day and then settle down at night to read my books till morning!

Is It Your Attitude or Your True Personality?

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Is there really a difference between one's personality and one's attitude?? Welll..to be honest I think there's quite a difference between the two. Thinking about it now...there are hot-tempered peeps who don't surprise you with their temper so when they blow up..at least it's something you already expect and you waive it off knowing that's how they are(their personality)!...But the quick-tempered peeps could be a little different because the outburst just comes from nowhere right in the middle of a discussion..leaving u shocked and speechless like a statue(their attitude)!!LOL!*smh* Funny enough,I think everyone's attitude could differ at anytime... but what makes the difference is what makes you upset..or suddenly angry ,how you express your anger/how often..and of course..to whom!(which is the reason why personality and attitude become confusing). More often than not,this confusion between personality and attitude happens in relationships or friend

Nothing Good Comes Easy...

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Sitting on my bed on a lazy Saturday morning...am reminiscing and thinking to myself.....Hmmmm...Just like a few other aged sayings like "The Evil That Men Do Live After Them"...the saying used as my Post title seems not to have that weighty effect I grew up with! There was also a recent controversy concerning an advice given by a well-known preacher advising singles on marriage partners ,which would have been more agreeable with the singles populace back then because it was a norm for a wife-to-be to know how to cook, to be a complete package and for a husband-to-be to have a steady income stream, was definitely top of the list! But hmmm...with the change in millennium times evolving with a lot of woman empowerment,gender equality,bread-winner wives...etc...that kinda advice requiring a woman to be a good cook before a suitor can see her possessing wifey qualities ..cannot be given so much applause..in these times...If u ask me. Naaaa*smh**sighs* Wellll...anyways..I com

The Problem Behind The Silence..

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Helloooooo peeps! How's it been?Hope this post meets you in good health!*wink* And soooo...a few days ago,I got chatting with a friend who complained to me about his wife's silence recently,especially on issues or discussions that would have usually aroused her vocality! To my amusement,he felt relieved by her recent change of behaviour...as opposed to when they would have noisy arguments waking up the neighbours every other night!*sighs* Hmmmm...Well..as usual..I got inspired to write a post on this*smiles* It's quite interesting to see that when a couple are having an argument...a partner's silence is often mistaken for stupidity..naivety or lack of knowledge...even a subtle agreement to whatever the outcome of the situation is...and a whole lot more of misinterpretations!*smh* But guess what... More often than not...the partner is silent or slow to respond for other reasons that a lot of people dont realise or for some that do...they just choose to ign

Happy Children's Day!

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Hello peeps!! And so in Nigeria today,(May 27th)..It is that time of the Year to mark the Children’s Day celebration. I can never get tired of repeating how children are not just unexplainable bundles of joy but a great blessing from God. In so many ways,messages are passed physically and spiritually through them..even in their innocence and that's what makes them magical! For those who can relate,the early stages of sharing moments with them..that's between New-borns and toddlers,could be quite tasking.. ..And as a parent,you sit asking yourself when you are gonna start enjoying the fruits of your labour! LOL! Wellll...trust me..u'd be amazed how time flies with kids growing up and before you realise..they are all grown up getting ready to leave your house and move on! *sighs* So why not enjoy those "tasking moments" smiling to yourself and say ..."This is just a phase". Welll..for those who can relate to the scenario of havin

Got Til It's Gone..

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Welcome to the amazing month of April!! And Ohh yeah...Happy April Fool's Day peeps!! So who's April gonna fool today?Hmmmm...anyways y'all should have fun fooling somebody today *wink* LOL! Singing along to Janet Jackson's song"Got till it's gone" ,a smile curves my lips as I ponder over those melodious, yet deep and meaningful lyrics! Truth be told..there are just some people out there who come into your life,never realise your value or worth until you take a walk or they walk away! Funny how it takes your absence for them to begin to realise the diamond you are..the sparkle that made their life meaningful at some point*sighs* It wouldn't make so much sense for you to start thinking and giving yourself an undeserved headache about it. The saying.."Because someone doesn't know your worth doesn't mean you should lose track of it!" comes to mind. At the point of their presence in your life,they somehow make you beli